National Medal of Honor Day 2022

Today is the 32nd year that the United States will celebrate National Medal of Honor Day. The holiday was signed into law by President George H W Bush on the 15th of November 1990, and it is celebrated on the 25th of March to commemorate the first 23 men to receive the Medal of Honor on the 25th of March 1863. But why is this so important?

In short, it is important to read the stories of the 3,511 recipients that went above and beyond the call of duty to do the right thing, knowing what the consequences could be. For many recipients, they never lived to receive the highest military award for valor. Others have had to live with the Medal as a public reminder of the worst day of their life. Statistically, everyone reading this will never have to jump on a live grenade to save our friends but our lives will have metaphorical grenades tossed our way. It is up us to do the right thing, no matter what the cost, and if that means jumping on these “grenades”, then these stories should act as inspiration.

I have committed the next thirty years of my life to telling every single one of these stories but today, the 25th, here are 25 stories I think you should check out. For more stories and episodes, visit Tales of Honor Podcast online or on your favorite media app.


 

Opinion: Tipping the Scale - Fair and Balanced

Masks have been a highly debated and dividing topic over the last twenty-two months and it hasn’t looked like there was an end in sight. Advocates in favor of masking to protect from infection of COVID-19 have continuously butt heads with those that are in favor of individual choice to wear, or not wear, a mask. The largest area of debate has been the decision of what children should do when in school and for 2020 and 2021, students of Southern Lehigh School District have not had the choice to attend school unmasked, until now. Thanks to community voices and a majority vote of the school board, the district will allow the wearing of masks to be an individual choice, and this is an important step towards maintaining fair and balanced policy making for the community.

On the 10th of January 2022, the SLSD school board voted in favor of the district moving to a mask optional policy for students and staff, after having masks required since the return to in-person learning in 2020. Mary Jo Reinartz, Nicole King, Kyle Gangewere, Emily Gehman, Jeffrey Dimmig, Stephen Maund, and Priya Sareen all voted in favor of allowing parents to make risk assessments and medical decisions for their own children for the first time in seventeen months. I want to personally thank these members for their votes to place these parental powers back in the hands of the community members that attend the board meetings and voted to have them on the board in the first place. I will also take this opportunity to thank one of the dissenting voices, William Lycett. He did not vote against this proposal because he thinks the students should continue to be masked; on the contrary. Mr. Lycett has made his position clear at many meetings that he does not feel the board has the power to implement a mask mandate and the proposal that passed kept the children masked for another two weeks, which he continues to oppose. The other dissenting vote belonged to Christopher Wayock, whose opposition to the proposal was to make the mask optional policy begin immediately. For this, I am thankful for his firm stance on letting this decision rest in the hands of the parents.

This is a fantastic step towards leveling the scale of fairness and balance regarding this topic. The most common dissenting argument to allowing masks to be optional has been, “just not right now”, which has left many asking, “if not now, when?” The goal posts continued to get moved, frustrating many, to include the discussion at the board meeting on the 10th of January. A prior meeting had set the date of January 11th as the first day of mask optional, but this was overturned on the 10th. However, the ability to compromise on the 10th should be highlighted and be a reminder to all that there are more people in the community than just the person you see in the mirror: we are not alone.

I truly believe that the response to COVID-19 has put everyone into a state of grief and with that comes the five stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Everyone knows someone that is in one of these specific stages right now. There is a group of people that made it to the acceptance stage quickly and those people are the ones that have chosen to live without fear. Those people accepted that we would all have COVID-19 at some point, regardless of the variant, and made a risk assessment that best fit their lives. Many people are still stuck in the bargaining stage, willing to do anything so long as they will be spared from the virus. They will stay home, wear a mask, wear two masks, receive three vaccinations, mask their 4-year-old…whatever it takes. They have yet to realize that no matter what they do, they will still, one day, have COVID-19 and all they bargained away was their ability to think for themselves, their bodily autonomy, their physical and mental health, and all of that which belongs to their children. I do not want to live in a society that accepts being controlled by one group of people because that is not how our founding fathers envisioned life in a free country.

The real reason masks have been a highly contested topic, at least in the school setting, is because it was a very recognizable sign of parents losing the right to choose what is best for their children. No one has said that masks won’t be allowed in school; in fact, the opposite has been said with the mask optional policy. The district will be providing access to KN95 masks to those that want to continue masking, and that is fantastic. Our kids should be allowed to be kids and every adult has once been in their shoes: we need to remember that. Zero injury, illness, and death are unobtainable and utopian goals that should not be taught to our children, and this policy is a fantastic step in teaching them the power of personal choice and responsibility.

End of Year Wrap

So Long 2021!

As always, I want to thank YOU for being a supporter of my business, whether it is sharing posts, referring someone to do business with me, or spending your hard earned money for parts, accessories, or detailing. It means a lot to me and I cannot thank you enough. Many people know that The Bearded Detailer is my primary focus and I am only able to accomplish this because of people like you, so thank you from the bottom of my heart.

There are no new products or services that I have to announce for the upcoming year so as of right now it will be business as usual. However, I do have to announce a very important change that will be taking effect as of January 1st: pricing. Since opening this business, I have only raised my detailing prices one time and the time has come to do so a second time. My costs with suppliers have gone up this year, along with many other things, and in order for me to continue to provide my services to awesome people like you, I will have to make adjustments. Regular detailing packages have gone up 10% and all Opti-Coat ceramic coatings have increased about 7%. I have updated the website to reflect these changes: https://www.thebeardeddetailer.com/packages

For anyone that has visited the Swag Store, you may have noticed some price changes there as well. For example, the OEM European LED tail lamps that I import from Europe have increased about 20% in just the last month. I wish I had more control over the prices but my only other option would be to stop offering them and that would not be fair to those that do want them. I do check prices on popular items monthly and I will adjust them back down once I see those changes happen on my end.

Once again, I want to thank you for your support and I can give you some things that you can do for free that will be super helpful:

- Tell a friend and/or family member. This costs nothing and everyone knows at least one person that could benefit from a product or service that I offer.

- Bookmark this Amazon link: http://amzn.to/tbdamazon - there is nothing funky about the link or the shopping, but there is an affiliate code embedded and that does provide a little monetary kick back to me. Your shopping is anonymous so you don't need to worry about me finding out what you buy at 2am on a White Claw bender.

- Listen to my two podcasts: Tales of Honor and Professional American - Tales of Honor is entering its fifth year of existence and tells the true stories of every recipient of the Medal of Honor (the highest US military award). Professional American is more laid back but covers a variety of topics like business start up, hunting, and even my take on the recent Afghanistan withdrawal. They are available anywhere you can consume media and again, costs nothing.

That's all for this update and for the year! I pray you all had a very merry Christmas and that you will have a safe New Year celebration.

Veterans Day 2021

In a few months I will be completing another trip around the sun and be entering my 37th year on this planet. That sentence alone means nothing until I look back through my time on Earth; the people I’ve met, the places I’ve been, and the experiences I’ve had. When I do, I realize that everything had to happen just so in order for me to be sitting at a lookout on the Cherohala Skyway with a wife of thirteen years and two daughters. I don’t talk about my family on this account because it’s not really what people come here for but I feel today I need to.

If I had not joined the Army at 17, I wouldn’t have had the chance to go to college, where I met Crystal. Who knows what my life would be like if I wasn’t blessed to have such a strong woman by my side, especially in times where I was not myself: consumed by pills and alcohol, it is weird for me to look back at a time when I wanted to leave my family, and this world, behind. If it wasn’t for the support of her, I wouldn’t have put the gun down, stopped drinking, or flushed the pills. That day was truly the day when my post-military growth began. I vowed to be the man she fell in love with and made my kids my new mission.

Almost ten years later, I can’t say that those changes to my life have been easy and being a parent can really suck. I won’t ever pretend that I don’t have days where I get inside my own head and wished I had made a different choice. I won’t ever pretend to be a good dad or that I have all the answers. What I do know is that God put us all here for a reason and even after a war, job loss, suicidal thoughts, and many failures, this photo is my reason.

I don’t know who needs to hear this today but God has a plan for you. You may choose to see the suffering and the failures as neglect, but they’re making you stronger and once you recognize what your mission is, it’ll all make sense. You’re worth His sacrifice and you are worth fighting for. Do not choose to be a victim and be a better person than you were yesterday.

Happy Veterans Day to all my brothers and sisters out there. I love you all.

Opinion: It is Time to Start Caring

People do not care about a group of people or a situation until it directly affects them or someone close to them.

 I have been saying this to people for a very long time. The military, health, and/or education: these are all areas that we don’t really spend much time thinking about until they directly affect our lives. We (collective) start to care about the military (or wars) when someone we know joins or is about to be deployed. We start to care about our health when the doctor gives you bad news. We don’t really care about the educational system until our kids are in it and we see behind the curtain. It may be part of human nature because there are so many things that take place in our day to day lives. If we spent all of our mental bandwidth on every topic, our lives would be chaos.

 This, however, is not an excuse or a pass to not look into things that don’t affect you. At one point or another, everything does enter your family circle and it may be wise to be proactive instead of reactive. Why wait to be told you have a weight related health issue to lose weight?

 I will never change the world, country, state, or whatever town I reside in. I can make changes in my own life and that is it. My long-winded rants I know go unread by many and I know even fewer actually care what I have to say. However, if I have any hope, it is that something I say might get a wheel turning in someone’s mind that may not have happened if I stayed quiet. That may affect change elsewhere…it may not. I would never know if I kept my mouth shut all the time.

 At this point, it shouldn’t be a secret about how Crystal and I feel about the governmental response to SARS-CoV-2, nor should it be a secret how we feel about personal health. We feel that our personal health is the ONE thing that we as humans get to be selfish about. Without our own good health, we are less than useful to others. It is up to the individual to make choices that affect his health, and these choices can’t be forced. I cannot make you not drink soda: sure, if I was by your side for every waking second, I could but that isn’t reality.

 So many people have spent a lot of time and money incentivizing only ONE option to fight SARS-CoV-2 (I can’t write the word without having a label applied to this essay). In the beginning, it was just funny or ridiculous to many people. For some of us, it was disgusting, and we saw where this could head. That time is here, and I will tie this back in to where I started. Some people predicted that the one “option” would eventually be required to be a part of everyday life. Those people were laughed at and told that would never happen. Well, it is here now, and it is starting with healthcare workers.

 Crystal works for Lehigh Valley Health Network (specifically their Physicians Group) as an ultrasound tech. They have spent over a month sending out emails to employees saying that “Unvaccinated colleagues who interact with others are putting those individuals at risk”. Sure, it was perfectly fine to interact with others for the last nineteen months, and worked harder than ever before, but moving forward it is now dangerous.

 Pennsylvania is one of 44 states that allow for the filing of a religious exemption in the workplace and LVHN did allow for that to happen. To be clear, the legal definition of a religious belief in the United States is stated as being "not merely a matter of personal preference, but one of deep religious conviction, shared by an organized group, and intimately related to daily living" (1) according to US Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.

 LVHN stated on the 9th of August 2021, that medical exemptions would be reviewed by Employee Health Services and religious exemptions would be reviewed by Legal Services. Crystal’s exemption (along with many others) was denied two business days after being submitted. The lawyer stated that her objections were “factually incorrect”. The mistake he made was that Crystal did not check the box or write that she had an objection to the ingredients of the current “options”. She had stated clearly that her sincerely held religious beliefs are based on the Word of God, that her body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, and that it is not hers to do with as she pleases with (2). Going on, she wrote that while her objections were not of the ingredients, but that of the development and testing practices that used cell lines derived from aborted fetuses. Going above and beyond what was required, Crystal also provided links to government (3, 4, 5) and educational sources (6), as well as to Janssen (7), the company responsible for making one of the currently available “options”.

 So now what? The lawyer told Crystal there is no appeal and that the decision is final. According to LVHN, all employees (and contractors that work for LVHN, like elevator repair) must have either been approved for an exemption or initiated their “option” series by the 14th of September. A final warning goes out to those that have done neither and then they will be considered resigned on the 28th of September if they do not comply. I want to be clear: we do not want any pity over this. We knew this was coming and have done our best to prepare for the times ahead. We want you to know what is going on. What LVHN, and many others, is doing is very illegal by hoping to coerce enough people so they don’t crumble with the loss of employees. There are many who are prepared to stand their ground in this scenario and Crystal is one of them. Remember that legal definition of a religious belief? Her exemption wasn’t just part of a fad to get out of doing something: it is part of her life, and she will not falter from her beliefs.

 For many, this may be the first hardship they will have to endure. Some nurses are in their early twenties and fresh out of school. Some are close to retirement, and more are working in this position for the medical benefits for their families. There are a lot of emotions surrounding this, especially for Crystal, and ultimately, even if LVHN decides to change course at the last minute to retain employees, the trust lost due to this policy will never be regained. The public deserves to know what one of the largest health networks in the area is doing to its employees. These employees are your neighbors, your health providers, your children, your siblings, your friends, and the parents of the friends of your children. They aren’t evil people: they are people that are making a personal choice for their individual health and ultimately being punished for making that choice. Not one employee will be let go because they choose not to wear a seatbelt on their way to work. Not one will be let go for the excessive drinking they do after work or the cigarettes that go with.

 Whether or not this discrimination is intentional is not my decision to make. I have my opinion and it is mine. It is also the decision of the EEOC and the Civil Rights Act of 1964, specifically Title VII: section 703 outlines Unlawful Employment Practices and states:

 It shall be an unlawful employment practice for an employer -

(1) to fail or refuse to hire or to discharge any individual, or otherwise to discriminate against any individual with respect to his compensation, terms, conditions, or privileges of employment, because of such individual's race, color, religion, sex, or national origin; or

(2) to limit, segregate, or classify his employees or applicants for employment in any way which would deprive or tend to deprive any individual of employment opportunities or otherwise adversely affect his status as an employee, because of such individual's race, color, religion, sex, or national origin. (8)

If this can happen in a health network, then it can and will happen in other businesses in every town and every state in the US. It can only be fought together: you do not have to agree with someone’s position to fight for their right to have that position. Those left in the network will be left to pick up the workload and too will suffer longer hours and busier schedules. We truly are all in this together and need to push back.


Sources

1.   USEEOC v. IBP, Inc., 824 F. Supp. 147 (C.D. Ill. 1993) - https://law.justia.com/cases/federal/district-courts/FSupp/824/147/1460454/

2.   The Holy Bible, NIV: “1 Corinthians 6:19-20” - https://www.bible.com/bible/111/1CO.6.19-20.niv

3.   North Dakota, April 20, 2021: “COVID-19 Vaccines & Fetal Cell Lines” - https://www.health.nd.gov/sites/www/files/documents/COVID%20Vaccine%20Page/COVID-19_Vaccine_Fetal_Cell_Handout.pdf

4.   Michigan Department of Health & Human Services, April, 21, 2021: “COVID-19 VACCINES & FETAL CELLS” - https://www.michigan.gov/documents/coronavirus/COVID-19_Vaccines_and_Fetal_Cells_031921_720415_7.pdf

5.   Nebraska Medicine, August 18, 2021: “You asked, we answered: Do the COVID-19 vaccines contain aborted fetal cells?” - https://www.nebraskamed.com/COVID/you-asked-we-answered-do-the-covid-19-vaccines-contain-aborted-fetal-cells

6.   University of Oxford, March 3, 2021: “COVID-19 vaccines” - https://vk.ovg.ox.ac.uk/vk/covid-19-vaccines

7.   Janssen MD, August 5, 2021: “Janssen COIVD-19 Vaccine (Ad26.COV2.S)” - https://www.janssenmd.com/janssen-covid19-vaccine/product-properties/product-technology/advac-and-perc6-technology-of-the-janssen-covid19-vaccine

8.   U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, “Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964” - https://www.eeoc.gov/statutes/title-vii-civil-rights-act-1964